16:64 An-Nahl (The Bee)

وما أنزلنا عليك القرآن -أيها الرسول- إلا لتوضح للناس ما اختلفوا فيه من الدين والأحكام؛ لتقوم الحجة عليهم ببيانك ورشدًا ورحمة لقوم يؤمنون.

بيَّن تعالى لرسوله صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه ليس هو أول رسول كُذِّب فقال [تعالى]: { تَاللَّهِ لَقَدْ أَرْسَلْنَا إِلَى أُمَمٍ مِنْ قَبْلِكَ } رسلا يدعونهم إلى التوحيد، { فَزَيَّنَ لَهُمُ الشَّيْطَانُ أَعْمَالَهُمْ } فكذبوا الرسل، وزعموا أن ما هم عليه، هو الحق المنجي من كل مكروه وأن ما دعت إليه الرسل فهو بخلاف ذلك، فلما زين لهم الشيطان أعمالهم، صار وليهم في الدنيا، فأطاعوه واتبعوه وتولوه. { أَفَتَتَّخِذُونَهُ وَذُرِّيَّتَهُ أَوْلِيَاءَ مِنْ دُونِي وَهُمْ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ بِئْسَ لِلظَّالِمِينَ بَدَلًا } { وَلَهُمْ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ } في الآخرة حيث تولوا عن ولاية الرحمن، ورضوا بولاية الشيطان فاستحقوا لذلك عذاب الهوان.

ثم قال تعالى لرسوله أنه إنما أنزل عليك الكتاب ليبين للناس الذي يختلفون فيه فالقرآن فاصل بين الناس في كل ما يتنازعون فيه "هدى" أي للقلوب "ورحمة" أي لمن تمسك به "لقوم يؤمنون".

And We have not revealed to you O Muhammad (s) the Book the Qur’ān except for the purpose that you may make clear to them to mankind that wherein they differ in the matter of religion and as a guidance wa-hudan is a supplement to wa-li-tubayyina ‘and that you may make clear’ and as a mercy for a people who believe in it.

Also at the end of the third verse (60), in: وَهُوَ الْعَزِيزُ الْحَكِيمُ (And He is the Mighty, the Wise), there is a hint that taking the birth of a baby girl to be nuisance and disgrace, and hiding from people because of it, amount to challenging Divine wisdom - as the creation of male and female among the created is the very requisite of wisdom. (Ruh a1-Bayan)

Ruling:

Clear indications are visible in these verses that taking the birth of a girl in the family to be a disaster or disgrace is not permissible under Islam. This is done by disbelievers. Quoting Shr'ah (شرعہ ) Tafsir Ruh al-Bayan also says that a Muslim should be happier at the birth of a girl in the family so that it becomes a refutation of the act of the people of Ja-hiliyyah. Says a Hadith: Blessed is the woman who gives birth to a girl in her first pregnancy. That the Arabic word: اِنَاث (inath: females) has been made to precede the word for 'males' in the verse of the Qur’ an: وَيَهَبُ لِمَن يَشَاءُ الذُّكُورَ‌ (He bestows on whomsoever He wills females and bestows on whomsoever He wills males - 42:49) indicates that the birth of a girl from the first pregnancy is better.[

In another Hadith, it is said: Whoever finds any of such girls en-trusted to his care, and he treats them fairly and favourably, then, these girls will stand as a curtain between him and Hell. (Ruh al-Bayan)

To sum up, it can be said that taking the birth of a girl to be bad is a detestable custom of the pagan period. Muslims must abstain from it. In fact, they should be pleased and satisfied with the promise of Allah against it. Allah knows best.